In a world where our lives are rapidly lived online, privacy can feel like an illusion. May it be selfies on Instagram or a flirty DM on snapchat, there is no one more connected and open than the Gen Z.
There is one issue that is increasing in the digital age – Sextortion, and it’s dangerous, and far more common than one can even think.
Let’s break it down, learn how it happens, and most importantly—understand how to stop it.
What is Sextortion?
Sextortion is a form of online blackmail where someone threatens to expose your private or intimate photos or videos unless you send more content, pay money, or meet other demands.
The culprit could be a stranger, an online "friend," or even someone you know. It often starts with fake profiles, false intimacy, or trust that's later manipulated.
Sextortion is considered to be a crime, a very extreme one. The ones who fall in this pit frequently feel ashamed, and isolated, which stops them from asking help from someone.
How Does Sextortion Typically Happen?
Here's how sextortion usually plays out:
You receive a friend request or DM from an attractive stranger.
The conversation quickly turns flirtatious or romantic.
You’re asked to share photos or join a video call.
The moment you share intimate content, the mood changes.
Suddenly, there are threats: “Pay up or I’ll send this to your friends.” “Give me more photos, or I’ll post this online.”
According to the cybercrime authorities, there are hundreds of similar cases that are filed all over India.
Red Flags to Watch Out For
Spotting the warning signs early can save you from a world of stress. Here's what to be wary of:
A new account with limited photos and few followers.
Someone who pushes for fast intimacy or requests nudes quickly.
Accounts that don’t video call or insist on chats through apps like WhatsApp or Telegram only.
Conversations that turn manipulative or threatening.
If It Happens to You, Do NOT Panic
The first instinct might be to delete everything, block them, or worse, pay them off—but take a deep breath. Here’s what you need to do:
Do:
Stop engaging with the blackmailer immediately.
Do not pay, no matter how convincing or aggressive they are.
Take screenshots of chats, usernames, and threats. Record screen if needed.
Block the account and report it on the platform.
File a complaint at https://cybercrime.gov.in or call the Cyber Crime Helpline at 1930.
Inform a trusted adult or friend who can support you emotionally and practically.
Don’t:
Don’t delete your messages or photos immediately (evidence is important).
Don’t give in to their demands.
Don’t blame yourself. You’ve been manipulated. It is not your fault.
Smart Digital Habits = Safer You
You don’t have to disappear from the internet to stay safe—but small changes can make a big difference.
Keep your social media accounts private.
Don’t accept follow requests or DMs from strangers.
Avoid sending intimate content, even to people you trust. Screenshots, recordings, and cloud backups exist.
Use strong passwords and turn on two-factor authentication.
Sextortion continues to grow in silence. If we have to stay safe from it, its very important we speak more about it and empower others about the whole scenario.
You are not alone. And you don’t have to deal with it alone.
Stay smart. Stay safe. And remember: your body, your privacy, your rules.
