Pune: What started as a chance encounter on a train from Daund to Pune blossomed into a love story that has lasted for over four decades. Babu D’Souza Kumthekar and Madhuri Vaidya-D’Souza Kumthekar first met on a train when her father requested him to keep an eye on his daughter during the journey. That first conversation eventually grew into a lifelong companionship.
Babu, who later retired from government service, recalls that they had studied in the same school in Daund but had never interacted. Madhuri, who was interested in literary activities, was familiar with his work. She went on to pursue nursing, while Babu joined college and worked as a casual artist at Pune Akashvani (radio station). When he met her again on the train, he noticed she was holding a nursing book—a rare sight, as very few Brahmin girls pursued nursing at the time.
Their conversation continued beyond that journey. Eventually, she moved to Mumbai for work, and so did Babu, securing a bank job. Later, he was transferred to Pune, and she joined the Khapoli Municipal Hospital, where she was recognized as Raigad’s Best Nurse.
When Babu congratulated Madhuri on her professional achievements, they met again, and he proposed marriage. However, their religious differences led to opposition from her family.
Madhuri’s cousin, Dr. Sharad Agarkhedkar, took an active role in their union, meeting Babu and eventually approving the marriage. Her maternal uncle also conducted a background check, after which he too gave his consent. Finally, the couple was married in Alandi in a traditional Vedic ceremony.
Reflecting on their 43 years of marriage, Babu says, "There were religious barriers, but love triumphed, and our bond remained unbreakable." "A successful marriage is built on mutual support. We turned our dreams into reality. My husband has always been my pillar of strength. Our families have accepted and respected our love, and we are grateful for the life we have built together."
