Pune: In recent years, there has been a notable rise in divorce rates among couples aged 50 to 60.
Various factors such as consistent marital disputes, infidelity, refusal of physical relations, and financial disagreements have contributed to this trend. Couples are increasingly choosing to separate to live independently and with self-respect in their later years.
According to family court lawyer Bharat More, the number of people above 50 seeking divorce has increased significantly over the past five to seven years. The desire to avoid conflicts and live freely is driving many to opt for separation.
Examples Highlighting the Trend:
Milind and Kamala: Married since 1998, Milind and Kamala recently divorced due to constant disagreements and Milind’s extramarital affair. Both are well-educated professionals, with Milind working in a major company and Kamala managing her own business.
Sudhakar and Madhura: After 30 years of enduring her husband’s alcohol addiction and frequent arguments, 56-year-old Madhura divorced 60-year-old Sudhakar. She now lives with her son in Mumbai, while Sudhakar remains alone in Pune. Her children supported her decision to separate.
Common Reasons for Later Life Divorces:
Persistent marital conflicts
Refusal of physical intimacy
Desire for self-fulfillment
Infidelity
Severe illness of a partner
Financial disputes over property
Suspicious nature of a partner
Bharat More, Lawyer Practicing in Family Court, says, "In recent years, the rate of divorce among couples over 50 has increased. Various reasons contribute to these divorces.
Issues such as refusal of physical relations by the wife, extramarital affairs by the partner, and long-standing disputes have come to the forefront in later years.
Disagreements among children regarding property division also play a significant role. After reaching a breaking point, such decisions are made.
Some individuals feel they have endured a lot and have done a lot for their family and household. Now, they want to live for themselves, which also contributes to the rising divorce rates among the elderly."